September or December wedding??! Friend upset if I wed before her!
mariannarose
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Hi everyone! I just wanted to check back in and let you know we booked our September 1st wedding!!!!! We are so much happier with our decision :)
My friend said it stinks for her but she will be supportive. I told her I do not expect her to be as involved because she will be planning her own wedding - so I feel much better now.
Anyways, time to plan!!! I am so stressed now that we only have 7 months left ahhhh if anyone can recommend photo/video PLEASE let me know! :) Thank youuuuuu all for the support and kind words!
mariannarose
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September or December wedding??! Friend upset if I wed before her! - Long Island Weddings
Hi everyone! I just wanted to check back in and let you know we booked our September 1st wedding!!!!! We are so much happier with our decision :)
My friend said it stinks for her but she will be supportive. I told her I do not expect her to be as involved because she will be planning her own wedding - so I feel much better now.
Anyways, time to plan!!! I am so stressed now that we only have 7 months left ahhhh if anyone can recommend photo/video PLEASE let me know! :) Thank youuuuuu all for the support and kind words!
Jonsgirl024
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Yay I'm So happy u went with that date> happy planning
KTF11
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Yay! Congratulations on the check!! Good luck with planning!!
cj52514
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Posted by Lori0413
I'm also on the September bandwagon! It was nice of you to originally book your wedding after hers, but totally unnecessary, IMO. If September is better for you because of the weather, your job, and the meaning behind it, then you should go for it.
To me, you get ONE DAY to be the princess. You're not entitled to a shower or bachelorette and you're not entitled to dictate when these happen in relation to other people's events.
This!!
Karoline
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First I am sorry you are going through this. Your friend should be happy for you and understand. If she doesnt understand than I am sorry to say she isn't being a good friend. Tell her how you feel and remind her it is not about being first; it's about friendship and love.
Good luck and keep us updated.
Megglez108
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Do whatever makes you happy!! It's your day! and your special time! People who get upset over stuff like that, I'm sorry, are very selfish. You shouldn't change your day to please others!
YES he asked me
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Happy that you were able to change your date and feel better. Enjoy!
jenniepny
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You and I have the same date now! You need to schedule your wedding for you and FH. It's very nice that you took her feelings into consideration, but in the end your wedding is about you! She should just be happy for you, and if she is a true friend, she will realize that she is being petty and get over it.
Karoline
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Great news!! We are both Giorgio's brides too! I booked Ken Hild photography.
