Elegant, beautiful and incredible! Best decision we made was to choose Bourne Mansion as our venue. From booking the date, to the actual wedding day - the process was seamless due to the amazing staff on hand. Miriam was constantly at my beck and call whenever I had 100 wedding questions for her. She always was polite and very helpful!!! (THANK YOU!) The day of our wedding, we had Steve as our maitre'd. He kept everything organized and ran a tight ship. Him and his staff made sure we were eating, drinking and were happy. ( You are the best, Steve!) They go above and beyond- not to mention, the food is impeccable. The mansion was perfect for our winter wedding!
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Experience the grandeur of Bourne Mansion, a historic Long Island wedding venue that exudes luxury, elegance, and romance. This stunning Gold Coast estate in Oakdale, NY, offers a breathtaking setting for your dream wedding or special event. From its majestic Vanderbilt-era architecture to its sprawling, manicured grounds, Bourne Mansion provides an unparalleled backdrop for your once-in-a-lifetime celebration.
A Grand Venue for Weddings & Special Events
Whether you’re planning an intimate affair or a lavish ballroom reception, Bourne Mansion caters to every style of celebration:
- Luxury Long Island Weddings – Say "I do" in a stately mansion with elegant ballrooms, high ceilings, and scenic waterfront views.
- Corporate Events & Galas – Impress your guests with an exclusive setting perfect for high-profile gatherings.
- Social Celebrations & Milestone Events – From engagement parties to anniversary celebrations, host your special occasion in a venue designed for unforgettable moments.
Exquisite Wedding Catering & Custom Menus
At Bourne Mansion, your wedding experience is elevated with gourmet catering and impeccable service. Our expert culinary team creates customized menus featuring:
- Grand Reception Menus – A curated selection of international cuisine to suit every palate.
- Elegant Plated Dinners & Banquets – Sophisticated gourmet dishes designed to impress.
- Decadent Dessert Stations – Indulgent sweet treats to end the night on a high note.
- Personalized Enhancements – Bespoke menu upgrades for a fully tailored dining experience.
A Stunning Historic Estate Wedding Venue on Long Island
Bourne Mansion is one of Long Island’s most sought-after wedding venues, blending historic charm with modern luxury. Couples and photographers alike adore its:
✔️ Expansive Manicured Lawns – Ideal for outdoor ceremonies and elegant cocktail hours.
✔️ Grand Ballroom with Soaring Ceilings – A perfect setting for an opulent wedding reception.
✔️ Picturesque Water Views & Estate Grounds – Offering stunning backdrops for timeless wedding photos.
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Join us for our exclusive Bourne Mansion Wedding Showcase, where you can tour the venue, meet top wedding vendors, and experience our exceptional hospitality. Don’t miss the opportunity to start planning your dream Long Island wedding in one of the region’s most breathtaking locations.
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Discover why Bourne Mansion is the premier choice for luxury weddings on Long Island. Contact us today to schedule a tour and begin planning your unforgettable wedding.
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Where do I begin?! I alone give it 5 stars for my own experience with the staff. I was calm in the beginning and then all of a sudden got overwhelmed all of a sudden and my maitre d Steve, saved me! Like seriously. He made sure I was ok every moment he saw me and made me remember what it was all about and wants me to take it all in. The whole staff was incredible and tentative. Then the next day I spoke to my friends and family, EVERYONE was raving about the food! The cocktail food, the dinners! Everyone keeps raving about it! They keep texting me about how unique the venue was! It was homey and elegant at once. I even had a cousin who has the most amazing parties pull me aside and say "you had to one up me!" For anyone considering the Bourne mansion please take a look. It's a one wedding venue and they can trully make your dreams come true. Not only that no matter the weather you can't go wrong. If it should unfortunately rain on your wedding you have Soooo many options and areas to take AMAZING Pictures! The stair case, the hallways, the many fireplaces, all the different wall papers! It brings you backup a time when elegance was king! I went there 6 years ago for a wedding and the moment we pulled up into that long road to the gates I wished that when I meet my future husband that I get to have a wedding as beautiful as my friends. And who what of thought, Dreams do come true!
Where to begin!!! From the beginning tour of the Bourne to the very end of our wedding night was amazing. Miriam was absolutely incredible. She answered a billion of my questions no matter what day or time. I truly loved every bit of planning my wedding probably because everyone I worked with was nothing but helpful. We added on the Shrimp Cocktail, Raw Oyster & Clam bar for cocktail hour. That went over very well! All our guest said there was an abundance of food. Our dinner choices were filet mignon, mahi mahi & a french cut chicken. All very delicious!! Our cake was from the house vendor Campbells- it looked beautiful & tasted delicious. Maitre d Steve ran a "tight ship"!! He was great, fun & made you feel like nothing will go wrong & if it did it didn't matter. We could not be happier with how everything turned out. The Bourne Mansion is a wonderful choice & you will not regret it.
From the moment I stepped into this venue, I knew this is where I had to have my wedding. The place is beautiful, and elegant and had that wow factor. The grounds are beautiful and I loved that even in rain or shine I knew that our wedding photos would look beautiful at this place. Besides the place looking beautiful the staff there is amazing. From start to finish they make your day just perfect. They take care of every detail and were a pleasure to work with. The food was also amazing!
Can I just say WOW! You walk into the place and already your blown away. It's stunning. But, besides its beauty, its staff was absolutely unbelievable before during and after our wedding. We worked with Miriam for the event planning process. She was wonderful to work with. Always answered within a few hours (which is very important in the planning process) and helped us plan the most beautiful wedding in the world. The night of our maitre d, Steve was, as my husband calls it, "the man!" He was so fun and was unbelievably attentive the entire night. Steve made sure we ate, drank and had a blast. The venue was so accommodating to our every desire and wish. They made my dreams come true!! And the food...you have never had better until you try their filet!!!
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At Bourne Mansion, you'll experience the best of both worlds-the tradition of a historical landmark with the exclusivity of a private estate. The great lawn boasts breathtaking views of the Great South Bay. The Bourne Mansion...a dream wedding... fit for royalty.
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