TUXEDOS, has anyone looked into that yet???

A friend of mine used White Tie Tuxedo in, I think bohemia or oakdale. She had no problem, I will probably use them.

I am catholic and my fiance is jewish. The reverse of your situation. Anyway, we are having a reverenend and a cantor perform our ceremony. They will be incorporating both traditions from both faiths. The reverend's name is Rev. Susan Marlan. We met with her first and liked her alot. She is an Interfaith minister and very receptive to customizing the ceremony. The cantor is somebody she recommended and has worked with many times before. Let me know if you're interested and I'll send you her number.

Good luck in your search for an officiant. We did have some difficulty. Many of the other rabbis we spoke to did not want to co-officiate a ceremony. We wanted both to be represented. But once we found Rev. Marlan things worked themseleves out.

This is going to sound....maybe uncaring, but when it comes to my fiance and his tuxedo, he is on his own. If he gets any kind of stress from it, I don't think it's such a bad thing. All of the women on this site talk about how stressed they are but we haven't heard from any men being stressed. Is it all on our shoulders? If so, let them go to the tux place and be treated rudely, or like a bankbook who wants to lose all of its money. It's pretty fair....Just a thought.

I'm having Celebrity Music for my wedding too. Jay Letterman (he does a show at night on WALK-FM is great. He has a website at www.celebmusic.com where you can e-mail him your details and get a quote. Or you can call.

Good Luck!

I don't think its uncaring at all. It is his tuxedo, afterall...shouldn't he select it? Besides, they're grown men - perfectly capable of dressing themselves.

I need a Baker/Designer to make me a stack of drums - cake in my fiance's drum set color. Any suggestions????? MY GROOMS CAKE

Good Luck!

We saw Dante at the expo the other night and they definitely had a nice selection. Also, the guy at the booth was very helpful, We went down today and booked our tuxes for July and were able to try tuxes on in the store.

I wish you all the best (its not easy, i know). Let me know how you make out. :)