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stressing about an officiant!

guitarstikibars Posted:

stressing about an officiant!

pastor april is booked for my ceremony date and time! she recommended rev deb, who i just reached out to.

i have this completely insane fear of having a horrible officiant, a creepy officiant, or an officiant who simply doesn't show up.

HALP!
Gambigoo Posted:

stressing about an officiant! - Long Island Weddings

I had the same problem. April was booked too. But, we just met Deb at her office on Sunday and she was awesome. If you like pastor April, I'm sure you will like her too. They have the same 'vibe.' She is willing to customize anything you want and is very down to earth. You should def set up an appointment!

guitarstikibars Posted:

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Posted by Gambigoo

I had the same problem. April was booked too. But, we just met Deb at her office on Sunday and she was awesome. If you like pastor April, I'm sure you will like her too. They have the same 'vibe.' She is willing to customize anything you want and is very down to earth. You should def set up an appointment!



AWESOME!! i sent her an email a few minutes ago, so hopefully I can set something up for next week!
xBudgetBridex Posted:

stressing about an officiant! - Long Island Weddings

we are considering using a friend if fh that can do it but idk a professional seems so much safer! I've heard so many good thing aboutpator aApril prob why she is booked! good luck on your search!

flynn14 Posted:

stressing about an officiant!

Rev Sica is amazing. Fm if u want his contact info

chrisandcarri Posted:

stressing about an officiant! - Long Island Weddings

We are using Rev. Tracy Adamo. She has been great so far. She is currently working on our ceremony and I should get it in a few days.

dawnbon26 Posted:

stressing about an officiant! - Long Island Weddings

heard nothing but good things about her, but if she's not available, try Rev. Nick. He was wonderful.

guitarstikibars Posted:

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Posted by dawnbon26

heard nothing but good things about her, but if she's not available, try Rev. Nick. He was wonderful.



you have FM!
guitarstikibars Posted:

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Posted by flynn14

Rev Sica is amazing. Fm if u want his contact info



you have FM!
Terriechick Posted:

stressing about an officiant! - Long Island Weddings

Can someone FM me quotes for officiants. Right now FH best Friend is trying to get ordained but I want to look into a back up plan. TIA!!

stargazer092014 Posted:

stressing about an officiant! - Long Island Weddings

FI and I are going with Keith from NY Marriages. We clicked with him right away, we didn't even bother meeting with anyone else. You should definitely see if he's available on your date!

nella20005 Posted:

stressing about an officiant! - Long Island Weddings

We met with a few but clicked with Rev Rudy at marriedbyrudy.com He was down to earth, organized and professional. Thats what we were looking for.

Jack84 Posted:

stressing about an officiant! - Long Island Weddings

How much are officiants usually? $300-$500? Also, how far in advance do you think we should start meeting them? I dont want to get stuck with someone I dont care for either!!

Lauren615 Posted:

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Posted by guitarstikibars

pastor april is booked for my ceremony date and time! she recommended rev deb, who i just reached out to.

i have this completely insane fear of having a horrible officiant, a creepy officiant, or an officiant who simply doesn't show up.

HALP!




We are using Keith from NY Marriages and he was AMAZING to work with and super down to earth, funny and friendly. Let me know if you want some info :)
jenandivan Posted:

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Posted by xBudgetBridex

we are considering using a friend if fh that can do it but idk a professional seems so much safer! I've heard so many good thing aboutpator aApril prob why she is booked! good luck on your search!



Unless your FH's friend is an ordained minister with a congregation, an online ordination is not legal in Nassau/Suffolk. We asked FH's friend to do it for us, and we found out after the fact that he can't legally marry us. In NYC and other NY counties, it's legal, but not in Westchester, Nassau or Suffolk.

We booked Pastor April to do the legalities, but FH's friend will be a big part of our ceremony. She's working with FH's friend to give us a seamless ceremony :).
agilbe23 Posted:

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Posted by Lauren615

We are using Keith from NY Marriages and he was AMAZING to work with and super down to earth, funny and friendly. Let me know if you want some info :)



This!!!! Keith is AMAZING and he loves what he does- and it shows! I've seen videos of him and he is so genuine, I knew I had to have him as my officiant! :)
Terriechick Posted:

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Unless your FH's friend is an ordained minister with a congregation, an online ordination is not legal in Nassau/Suffolk. We asked FH's friend to do it for us, and we found out after the fact that he can't legally marry us. In NYC and other NY counties, it's legal, but not in Westchester, Nassau or Suffolk.

Phew we are getting married in NYC (Brooklyn).. FH 's freind is going to work for me!
jenandivan Posted:

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Posted by Terriechick

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Unless your FH's friend is an ordained minister with a congregation, an online ordination is not legal in Nassau/Suffolk. We asked FH's friend to do it for us, and we found out after the fact that he can't legally marry us. In NYC and other NY counties, it's legal, but not in Westchester, Nassau or Suffolk.

Phew we are getting married in NYC (Brooklyn).. FH 's freind is going to work for me!

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