Not invited to church friends wedding

jashbagash Posted: Jun 13, 2015 05:41 PM

Not invited to church friends wedding

I am so upset, this friend from church is having a wedding and

they have deleted me from Facebook and they only way I found out she was engaged was by a mutual friend. So I am pretty sure I wont be invited to the wedding even though this is someone I have known for years from church. And I just want to know why I wasn’t invited, and I suspect it may be because of a falling out I had with her sister where she yelled at me for wanting to crash this other mutual friends wedding a few years ago. Would it be rude to just ask why I wasn’t invited and make sure it wasn’t because of this and she hates me? When she deleted me and I asked why ( this was after the thing with the wedding happened) she said everything was fine and she was only keeping people she talks to regularly. I just want to make sure I wasn’t not invited because of her sister being upset about me wanting to crash this other person s wedding. Her sister and the former bride are trying to ruin my life and turn everyone I know against me and make sure everyone I know knows about how i wanted to crash that wedding years ago.

Roisin48 Posted: Jun 13, 2015 08:33 PM

Not invited to church friends wedding

Besides all the other drama going on in this situation, it is never polite to ask why you are not invited to a wedding. And unless the bride or groom in question is a sibling or other close family member, you are owed no explanation either. Knowing someone for years does not equal an automatic wedding invitation, and if she even unfriended you on Facebook I wouldn't even expect one.

FutureMrsGomez Posted: Jun 14, 2015 10:26 PM

Not invited to church friends wedding

I think she will tell you the same reason why she deleted you from fb. that she is only inviting people she speaks to regularly

ChristineNicole Posted: Jun 15, 2015 09:35 AM

Re: Not invited to church friends wedding

Posted by Roisin48

Besides all the other drama going on in this situation, it is never polite to ask why you are not invited to a wedding. And unless the bride or groom in question is a sibling or other close family member, you are owed no explanation either. Knowing someone for years does not equal an automatic wedding invitation, and if she even unfriended you on Facebook I wouldn't even expect one.

I agree with this

kaselyn Posted: Jun 15, 2015 03:42 PM

Re: Not invited to church friends wedding

Posted by ChristineNicole

Posted by Roisin48

Besides all the other drama going on in this situation, it is never polite to ask why you are not invited to a wedding. And unless the bride or groom in question is a sibling or other close family member, you are owed no explanation either. Knowing someone for years does not equal an automatic wedding invitation, and if she even unfriended you on Facebook I wouldn't even expect one.

I agree with this

Same. There are too many people that just assume they're invited to my wedding. I'm sorry, but in order for me to afford to get married, many people I don't talk to on a regular basis got cut from the guest list.