My August 2008 Raphael Vineyard Wedding

Hi!  your wedding was BEAUTIFUL!!!   I just booked my wedding at Raphael for April of 2018!  If you don't mind, I would love to ask you some questions about timing and your guests arriving as the ceremony starts at 3?  Also, what did you do for music during the ceremony, cocktail hour and dinner?  We were looking at bands and they were asking questions abou their sound system ect. 
Thanks for any help you can give me!!
Diana