Here's a problem I am currently experiencing.
My fiance's mother-in-law is overwhelming me. She keeps calling trying to schedule time together. I gave in and met her Monday for coffee. She then said "Let me know if you want to go dress shopping. I am free." I said "Greats, thanks. I wil call you."
Last night, I find she leaves me this message about invitations and that she's free on weekends.
Thanks everyone for your feedback.
I guess I was looking at it in only a negative light. I will try to include her in some things but I feel like it might get out of hand. Give an inch...
We'll see.
Its is an awkward spot - especially when you're used to doing certain things in a certain way (with your mom). One of the things I've discovered is that many things have changed and will continue to as I adjust to my new role in his family. Its part of the package.
My mom died when I was young and I've been doing this solo. I'm not used to consulting with anyone. My MIL has not offered to do most things (b/c she's sick and can't get around too easily) but I've been very appreciative the feedback I have gotten from her.
Her excitement has been contagous - and she's been very gratelful. All too often the attention is on the brides family and the grooms parents are the the sidelines. It hasn't been all smooth - there have been a few consessions just to make her happy, but nothing that really matters long term.
Your last part of the message made me smile. Thanks and I will try to include her in some things.
Thanks!
If you do not know the name of the person they are bringing...you can use the following: Mr. John Smith & Guest
