Just trying to figure out my wedding party and I'm having a lot of pressure from my family to put in my cousin for my moh but I would like my friend-- has anyone done 2? Is it insulting to have 2 or still an honor? I just can't seem to choose between them...
I will be having 2 (both my sisters) and both my sisters had 2 (me and the other sister) and my friend had 2 also (her two closest childhood friends). It is definitely not insulting and to be honest it also helps take the pressure off of one person to plan to certain things. It is definitely ok to have 2, if that is what you want.
I am only having 2. My Maid of Honor and my Matron of Honor. However at the end of the day,its your decision and you should decide who you wish to stand by you on your day. There will be times when you have to be stern and put your foot down and that is ok.
I have two as well. One is my sister and shes my maid of honor, and the other is my best friend and she is my matron. I wouldnt change a thing! This is your wedding so do what you want!
I have two as well. One is my sister and shes my maid of honor, and the other is my best friend and she is my matron. I wouldnt change a thing! This is your wedding so do what you want!
Like everything else with wedding stuff, it's your wedding and you can do what you want because there is no rule book! I think having two MOHs is great. I don't have bridesmaids or groomsmen but we have 3 flower girls and 1 ring bearer.
I will be having two (my sisters) and they both had the two of us be co-MOH and honestly, it was great! it made it less pressure on either one of us and we both got to feel special too. I say don't worry about it so much!
Thanks girls I just didn't want to make anyone feel less special esp my friend bc she's so important to me :)
I've seen two before. Definitely not unusual! What's up with the pressure from the family?
I am also having 2- my cousin and my best friend. They are both like best friends and I couldn't chose. My cousin will be my Matron of honor and my friend the Maid of honor. They are both married but I figured my cousin is family so that warranted the matron title. They will each walk down the aisle alone and walking back and into the reception they will both walk with the best man-a girl on each arm. They will each do a speech as well.
I have 2! Both my sisters. Definitely not unusual
Just make sure both people are on the same page - I was a co-MOH and while I felt a bit slighted at first, that was the least of my problems. When discussing budget, bachelorette, shower, etc it felt like we were in two completely different worlds, especially regarding budget - although we had known each other through the bride for years we weren't really friends. Definitely alot easier when the two people are friendly and have the same expectations.
I'm having two! My sister is my matron and my best friend of 20 years is my maid of honor. I thought it was weird at first but didn't care and just did what I wanted =)
I'm having 2. My Matron is my best friend and my Maid is my sister :)
