Hi ladies, I need some advice for a matron of honor issue. I don't have a sister so I am planning on having my cousin as my matron of honor. My best friend had me as her maid of honor, my FH only wants to have one best man since he has a brother. I am going to have all the girls over on Friday to ask them to be in the wedding. I am starting to feel bad about not having my friend as a matron of honor also...should I just have 2 matron of honors and he'll have one best man or should I just leave it as is with my cousin as the only moh. I know my friend will understand but I still feel bad!! Any advice??
JessicaP07
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Matron of honor help!!!
I have 2 maid of honors & FH has 1 best man. I have 2 sisters & couldn't choose between them. FH was thinking about also making his best friend a best man so that our bridal party could match but I told him that they don't need to match & to do whatever he really wanted to do. He decided to only have his brother because that's what he wanted & he really wanted his brother to feel special
Dina1285
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Matron of honor help!!!
Yeah our wedding party isn't even as it is bc I'm having 8 girls and he is having 9 guys so I guess it wouldn't really matter. Thanks for the response!
xoxlilqtexox1
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I am in the same situation so I'm having a maid and matron of honor. Both will walk down the aisle alone and both will walk back for the recessional and into the reception with the best man. I will also have both of them do a short speech.
Dina1285
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Okay...thanks. I was also thinking if pics will look weird with 2 moh and 1bm but I guess it doesn't really matter. I'm so worried about hurting someone's feelings!
brirose18
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I don't think it really matters. My fiance is having a best man and 'man of honor' , but I'm only having a Matron of Honor. I've seen it reversed as well, do whatever makes you happy!