Ettiquite question

Jenny B Posted: Jun 25, 2001 02:43 PM

Ettiquite question

Two friends of mine were recently married in April 2001. Their wedding was out of town and I was unable to attend. At that time, I sent them a generous gift from their registry. In a few weeks I will be attending a brunch in NYC which planned by the bride and groom for those guests who were unable to attend the out of town wedding. Brunch will be held at a hotel on a Sunday. Do I have to buy another gift and if so what type of gift and how much should I spend? I have known these 2 people for a number of years, however I would not consider them 'close' friends.

thanks
jen

Karen H Posted: Jun 25, 2001 03:06 PM

Agreed - one gift is enough NM

vickfl77 Posted: Jun 25, 2001 03:15 PM

Agreed - one gift is enough NM

I agree too that one gift is enough. If you'd like to get something else, just so that you don't show up empty handed, how about a reasonablly priced picture frame or a bottle of wine and a nice card saying that this present is in addition to the wedding present that you got them and you hope that they enjoy both.

kim5.26.02 Posted: Jun 25, 2001 03:32 PM

Agreed - one gift is enough NM

yabbobay Posted: Jun 25, 2001 04:50 PM

idea posted once before

I think one gift is fine, but somebody posted this idea not too long ago...
4 bottles of wine...
1 first night
1 first fight...

I can't remember the rest, but you might be able to search for it

augbride2 Posted: Jun 25, 2001 05:05 PM

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I agree with the others. One gift is enough.

JennRenee Posted: Jun 25, 2001 06:16 PM

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I agree with bringing an inexpensive 'token' gift if you are not comfortable showing up empty handed.

Teri Posted: Jun 25, 2001 07:14 PM

Anyone remember the rest of that wine poem? Cute idea! NM

yabbobay Posted: Jun 25, 2001 09:28 PM

Anyone remember the rest of that wine poem? Cute idea! NM

give them wine glasses and 4 bottles of wine each bottle with it's own ribbon and label the 4 bottles...
FOR YOUR FIRST FIGHT
FOR YOUR FIRST NIGHT
FOR YOUR FIRST HOLIDAY
FOR YOUR FIRST ANNIVERSARY

Teri Posted: Jun 25, 2001 10:08 PM

Thanks Yabbobay! NM

caf73 Posted: Jun 26, 2001 09:54 AM

One gift is enough..too many parties for a wedding

I sometimes disagree with all of this celebrating for a wedding. I don't mind getting & giving gifts, but it turns out to be a lot for the attendees. Between engagement parties, showers, and weddings it's too much. We skipped the engagment party for that reason. Family only for that one.