Things that bothered you AFTER the day of?

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Posted by evita2781

i forgot to add non-gifters. luckily it was only a couple but that still annoyed me.

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we actually had more than a few I still don't get it with some of them...like I am just baffled

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

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Posted by evita2781

i forgot to add non-gifters. luckily it was only a couple but that still annoyed me.

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we actually had more than a few I still don't get it with some of them...like I am just baffled

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i'm still hoping that they send it in the mail.

actually, my BM forgot hers at home but i haven't gotten it yet but she said she has one for me. i feel weird asking but yea... i want it

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Posted by evita2781

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

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Posted by evita2781

i forgot to add non-gifters. luckily it was only a couple but that still annoyed me.

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we actually had more than a few I still don't get it with some of them...like I am just baffled

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i'm still hoping that they send it in the mail.

actually, my BM forgot hers at home but i haven't gotten it yet but she said she has one for me. i feel weird asking but yea... i want it

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i had a friend ask me not to cash her check until july 1st because her card was stolen and she wouldn't get reimbursed from the bank until then

i feel weird asking now if it's okay to cash it...i was hoping she would give me the green light first

but yes, i'm going to ask...tomorrow maybe

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

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Posted by evita2781

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

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Posted by evita2781

i forgot to add non-gifters. luckily it was only a couple but that still annoyed me.

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we actually had more than a few I still don't get it with some of them...like I am just baffled

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i'm still hoping that they send it in the mail.

actually, my BM forgot hers at home but i haven't gotten it yet but she said she has one for me. i feel weird asking but yea... i want it

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i had a friend ask me not to cash her check until july 1st because her card was stolen and she wouldn't get reimbursed from the bank until then

i feel weird asking now if it's okay to cash it...i was hoping she would give me the green light first

but yes, i'm going to ask...tomorrow maybe

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HAHAHHAHA i should do the same

1. I literally missed my entire cocktail hour because my bustle took FOREVER and then my MIL wanted to have a family photo of her entire side of the family and it took FOREVER.

2. Guests started arriving before HWC closed off the 'hallway' from the lobby to the terrace and I had guests walking around the ballroom. That still REALLY annoys me.

3. My bridal attendant was non-existent. Didn't get me a single drink all night. And she had BO. So maybe I'm glad she wasn't around.

4. The last shuttle was REALLY late therefore kind of putting a damper on my after party at the hotel. Most of all the hotel guests went to the bar afterwards, but since I was in the second limo they were there without us for like a half hour (maybe even longer) so by the time we got there a lot of them went to bed. We still had a big group at the after party, but it was still frustrating.

5. My makeup artist was running really late and I didn't get to have as many pictures taken at my house as I would have liked. I'm just hoping that in the end they were snapping away so I'll get a decent amount of candids there at least.

Hmmm...that's everything that I can think of at this exact moment...

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Posted by BlushandBashful


3. My bridal attendant was non-existent. Didn't get me a single drink all night. And she had BO. So maybe I'm glad she wasn't around.
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oh no, not bo!

Honestly I was more stressed after the wedding then I was before. The first 3 nights of our HM I woke up at 5 am FREAKING about a few things that went wrong.

My DOC was AWFUL!!!!! I should have went with my gut and not had one at all (I won a full Day DOC) so I thought why not, it’s free – NO she was STRESS and We asked her to leave before the reception. (everything that happened with her is in my review)

I had an issue with the BM flowers – they took care of it but it just annoyed me that it happened and that I don’t have a photo of the girls Bo-ks alone

At my CH hour everyone stayed inside and they “didn’t know there was an out side” - I fell my RH could have let people know better that there was more room outside

Some of the music the band played was on my “do not play list” and they said that they would learn some songs and when it came down to it they “didn’t know how” to play the 3 songs I asked for they told me this 2 days before the wedding.

My hair did not come out as good as it did for my trial & the curls came out but it was the HOTTEST day of the year

one non-gifter

I try not to think about these things anymore. . . . . . somethings are going to go wrong, you know.

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Posted by mariedsgn

My hair did not come out as good as it did for my trial & the curls came out but it was the HOTTEST day of the year

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I remember how hot it was!!! We were originally supposed to get married on 7/24/10 also, outdoors with a tent reception in a field! DH and I had a picnic on our 'would have been' wedding day and we were dying!

1) My centerpieces were not nearly as full as the samples... On the day of, I was annoyed, but when I think about it now, it pissses me off more because I think of how good the sample looked.

2) My photographer took a million more family pics of DH's family than mine. If you compare the piles, he probably took 100 of my family and 500 of his family. Not cool.

3) No show. It was our friend's girlfriend of 5+ years. They got into a fight the night before our wedding where she didn't want him to go out with all the guys, but he did anyway. Well, she was a no show to the wedding and then never even congratulate us. She actually UNfriended me from facebook Part of me could care less, but part of me is still so annoyed by her.

it was my transportation. enough said.


also, the church attendants were really nasty to me.


that's about it. if i dwell on it i'll just get fired up because those people got away with it and it was just completely wrong and so unethical.

argghhh this post is getting me worked up!

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Posted by evita2781

argghhh this post is getting me worked up!

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After a few weeks, it all goes away, trust me. I was really worked up the second we got back from the honeymoon once I started thinking about things, but slowly it went away especially after I saw our pro-pics

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Posted by adelz

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Posted by evita2781

argghhh this post is getting me worked up!

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After a few weeks, it all goes away, trust me. I was really worked up the second we got back from the honeymoon once I started thinking about things, but slowly it went away especially after I saw our pro-pics

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i hope it will... i'm just so angry. even DH is angry. maybe posting the issue will make me feel better

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Posted by evita2781

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Posted by adelz

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Posted by evita2781

argghhh this post is getting me worked up!

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After a few weeks, it all goes away, trust me. I was really worked up the second we got back from the honeymoon once I started thinking about things, but slowly it went away especially after I saw our pro-pics

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i hope it will... i'm just so angry. even DH is angry. maybe posting the issue will make me feel better

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Yup, it will. That's how I felt about the cake (hubby didn't let it get to him), but I was just annoyed by it completely...on day of not so much. After I posted about it and wrote out my review I felt a sigh of relief.

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

spin off to the post on 2011 board...

most of us were probably on cloud nine the day of and noticed some things but let it go for the sake of the big day.

But did you think about them after you were married and did they bother you more since you weren't caught up in the moment anymore?

There were a bunch of things that bothered me a little the day of and then bothered me more once I was married.

-my curls fell out before the ceremony. I was bothered by it because I've been curling my own hair for years and I know how to make it last and my hair person didn't. The day of I was like okay, whatever, it still looks good. But now it's something that irritates me.

- my bouqets were more pinkish purple rather than the lavender I asked for (and gave a ribbon to follow)...they were still pretty but not the color i went for. The pics kind of bother me

-people were served late. this really bothers me STILL when I think about it. especially since the excuse they gave S Ucks

- one particular no show/no gifter


now i'm realizing that this list can get kinda long so i'll stop now

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im curious - why were your guests served late? what was their excuse?

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Posted by mrs2012

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

spin off to the post on 2011 board...

most of us were probably on cloud nine the day of and noticed some things but let it go for the sake of the big day.

But did you think about them after you were married and did they bother you more since you weren't caught up in the moment anymore?

There were a bunch of things that bothered me a little the day of and then bothered me more once I was married.

-my curls fell out before the ceremony. I was bothered by it because I've been curling my own hair for years and I know how to make it last and my hair person didn't. The day of I was like okay, whatever, it still looks good. But now it's something that irritates me.

- my bouqets were more pinkish purple rather than the lavender I asked for (and gave a ribbon to follow)...they were still pretty but not the color i went for. The pics kind of bother me

-people were served late. this really bothers me STILL when I think about it. especially since the excuse they gave S Ucks

- one particular no show/no gifter


now i'm realizing that this list can get kinda long so i'll stop now

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im curious - why were your guests served late? what was their excuse?

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They didn't anticipate so many orders of the chilean sea bass so some people who had ordered the fish waited a LONG time. I'm talking about an hour. I am still Pi$$ed about that. That is no excuse. Serving people is your BUSINESS. shouldn't you be prepared for worst case scenario?

weak excuse.

It bothers me that the guitarist only played the intro to the song I was supposed to walk down the aisle to instead of the full thing...what really bothers me is that it was because my DH INSISTED on adding the intro and because of that it was printed on a separate piece of paper...so the guitarist just never flipped to the rest of the music.

Honestly I think that's the only thing that REALLY still bothers me.