Random Question

miamimerger Posted: Jul 04, 2011 12:24 PM

Random Question

Happy 4th everyone! I'm sure no one will read this until tomorrow , but I am curious about something. If you or your DH have one sibling, did you specifically ask them to be your MOH/his Best Man...or did you/your DH just assume that they would know? I'll fill you in on the background info later!

StaceyWill Posted: Jul 04, 2011 12:41 PM

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I have one sister and it was always pretty much known that she would be my MOH and I would be hers. I don't think either of us asked the other, we just said- you know you're the MOH right?

Im getting Married Posted: Jul 04, 2011 01:36 PM

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DH has 1 sister (brother passed away) his sister was not in the wedding but we asked her to do a reading. This is also because she is quite a few years older than DH.

My sister passed as well but if she was alive I would have just told her she was my MOH

mtk1605 Posted: Jul 04, 2011 08:54 PM

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I only have on sister and when she go married she asked me and when I got married I bought her a MOH sweatshirt and wrapped it along with a card, the card asked her to be my MOH :) his brother (he only has 1 bc the other passed away) he never 'asked' him a week before I emailed him to let him know he was and he also need to prepare the speech...he said he sort of figured

mtk1605 Posted: Jul 04, 2011 08:55 PM

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Sorry for all the mis spellings my iPad has a mind of it's own tonight

MerSaysEh Posted: Jul 04, 2011 10:39 PM

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i never asked my sister, it was just assumed

i dont think DH asked his bro and then his family made a whole big deal that he never asked (sorta jokingly but sorta not) so at dinner one night *I* asked BIL to be dh's best man.

Linzee636 Posted: Jul 05, 2011 08:21 AM

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DH has two sisters, and when his one got married last year, the other was the MOH. It was definitely assumed, and my unmarried SIL has already said that her sis will be her MOH. I think they've known all along that they would have each other.

2010BTB Posted: Jul 05, 2011 08:23 AM

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I have one sister...I knew she would be my MOH - so on the night we got engaged I asked her to be my MOH. She probably guessed that she woudl be it but there's nothing like asking someone to be one of the most important people on your big day.

dctead Posted: Jul 05, 2011 09:47 AM

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I have two sisters (and an amazing SIL who I consider my sister)... It was assumed.. though I did ask and they all were like 'duh'..

DH has a sister... We asked her to perform our ceremony.