First, I'd like to thank Alicia for making me the NWOTW. Now for the question.
I spent the afternoon w/ the inlaws this weekend as we discussed their friends and their relationships with their significant others and it made me wonder:
If you could only chose one option, would you rather be alone the rest of your life or would you rather be in loveless marriage?
2010BTB
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I'd have to say alone...would much rather spend time with people that love me like my friends and family.
halfbaked
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Alone, definitely. I actually would be okay alone. I relish it, sometimes.
bride2be1012
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Wow, those are depressing options. I choose C other
ellie424
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I would definitely choose to be alone. It must be really difficult being married to and living with someone who you do not love. I would much rather live my life alone.
CarolAnn721
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Alone
mybabylovesmoi
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Will my husband in a loveless marriage still do the lawn and stuff?
I'd probably rather be alone. I actually love being alone and doing my own thing.
ellie424
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Posted by mybabylovesmoi
Will my husband in a loveless marriage still do the lawn and stuff?
mariedsgn
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Alone
dctead
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Posted by mybabylovesmoi
Will my husband in a loveless marriage still do the lawn and stuff?
Alone... I spent too long in a loveless relationship (before DH) and when I came out of that - I promised myself that I'd never do that again.
jhines4684
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Alone. At least everything I own would be mine and I'd never have to share!
Future Mrs H
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Posted by dctead
Alone... I spent too long in a loveless relationship (before DH) and when I came out of that - I promised myself that I'd never do that again.
This!
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Alone. 100%. Family and friends mean the world to me and I wouldn't want to waste time or emotion in a loveless marriage.
I was engaged before DH in my early 20s to someone I had been dating for 4 years. Things didn't start off loveless per se but I ended things bc they turned out that way and I refused to be in a loveless marriage. Thank god I did what I did because good things come to those who wait
xoabxo
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Also alone
Chelechel1
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ALONE. I can be very happy by myself. Although I'm extremely happy with my new hubby now
SummerBride10
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i'd rather be alone
angelscri
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Alone
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Posted by Byrne2Be
Alone. 100%. Family and friends mean the world to me and I wouldn't want to waste time or emotion in a loveless marriage.
I was engaged before DH in my early 20s to someone I had been dating for 4 years. Things didn't start off loveless per se but I ended things bc they turned out that way and I refused to be in a loveless marriage. Thank god I did what I did because good things come to those who wait
Same here re: engaged before DH in early 20's. Feel exactly as you do..good things do come, and at the end of the day I'm happy to be where I am now (as it looks like you are also ).
Although I will admit I hated living alone. I slept on the couch every night w/ the lights on and TV on while I slept. Can I be in a loveless marriage but have boy toys on the side? Just sayin' lol
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alone
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i woould totally rather be alone. I could never be stuck in a loveless marriage and know that we could both be happier elsewhere and be passing life by with the wrong person.
