Not sure if this has been asked but.. Do things really *change* after your married?
natasha
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No big changes here. We just continued what we had as husband and wife. I think our big changes will come come with a family.
JustJodi
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Jenn, thats probably becuase you did spend 4-5 nights a week with him.. I think for some ppl that really truley have not had the chance to do that.. things would seem to change a bit once they started living togeter as a married couple. As for me.. we have lived together and raised our son together, so nothing has changed cept that I call him my husband now and not 'my boyfriend' or 'my sons father'
NIHA
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Things 'changed' more for me the first 1-2 years that we lived together, which were before being married. I can't beleive how long it took for me to adjust to living with him, in terms of habits, dividing chores, etc!! After marriage, I think the only things that changed were the lifetime committment becoming more real, I call him my husband, changed my last name and got pregnant.
MaryK
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It's only been a few weeks, but I definitely feel something and so does he. I think the 'quiet confidence' that everyone mentioned is a good way to put it. He became so much more emotional since the wedding too - it's amazing for me to see! We lived together for almost a year, so phyiscally there are few changes, but definitely emotionally and it's been wonderful! His kids have even changed - they say 'I love you' each time before we hang up the phone or close an IM! And for the first time this weekend Mitch and I will share the same bed when the kids are over - I can't wait!! LOL!
It feels more like a family now - the change has been wonderful!!!!
