Debbie...I'm so sorry about what you have experienced...but please know that your family will NOT be disappointed in you...they will be happy that YOU are alive and healthy and that you and Joe want to try again...
XOXOXOXOXOXO
anna
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Debbie,
I am so sorry to hear about what you've gone through. Just know that you are going through a healing process, cry all you need to. Just let yourself feel everything you are feeling. We are all here for you any time you need to vent, talk, ask questions...
MANY MANY hugs to you and your husband.
Laura
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Debbie I am so sorry for your loss and what you are going through- use the strength and love that Joe is giving to you- that is what the two of you are meant to do-- My prayers are with you during this difficult time Laura
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Even though I am still on the bride side I wanted to tell you how sorry I am that you had to write this post. But I think you need to give your family more credit. I am SURE your mother and sister want to support you during this time. Be glad they knew so that they can help you through this time. A close friend of mine miscarried and then had 2 children in 3 years. This miscarriage does not take your ability to have a child. I know your heart hurts, I cannot even imagine how badly. Try to surround yourself with people who love you. You will get through this difficult time.
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Debbie I am so sorry I get so sad from so many posts on these boards and yours like someone the other day, gave me chills when I read it It must have been very difficult to type that to us and my prayers are with you and Joe Tammy
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Debbie,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine what you have gone through, and what you are going through. The loss of a child is so incredibly sad. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
I too, unfortunately, have known a couple of people who have had miscarriages in the past couple of years. Someone very special to me had two before recently giving birth to their beautiful baby, and another's pregnancy terminated on its own at about the six month mark just a few weeks ago. I've seen the pain and turmoil this has caused them, and it is just so unfair.
It's so difficult to know what to say, and words won't change things, but know there are people who have you in their thoughts and are wishing you comfort.
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I just wanted to thank everybody again for all your kind thoughts. They are much appreciated. I apologize for the long delay, I'm not ignoring anybody, I just haven't been in the mood to talk to anybody! But, as they say, this too shall pass. When, I have no clue, but then again I'm pretty clueless about a lot of things these days!!! (Don't mind me, I still haven't left my Pity Party -- nothing like a guest who overstays her welcome, huh?))
Anyway, thank you all again! You girls are the greatest!
