I cannot believe how just plain mean my Aunt is! (long)

ugh - why do relatives act this way sometimes?! I think it hurts even more when something like this comes FROM a relative, rather than a stranger. Something similar happened with me and there wasn't a whole lot I could do about it :(

I think you should let your dad and his sister fight it out - at least he's on your side, so listen to him and keep the necklace. She might feel betrayed that she lent it to you, thinking she'd get it right back, but either way, there's no reason to say mean things like that

Michele, I am sorry you had to go through this.

My grandmother died 9 years ago and It is hard sometimes for me. I know what you are going through.

I say you have every right to keep that cross. It is such a shame that your aunt is being this way.

I hope things work themselves out.

Michelle,

I can really relate to your situation and I feel for you. I hope you get this resolved. I agree with the other girls - your father must deal with this situation, not you. It is his right to the necklace and to give it to you and he must let her know that. After all - he is the son!!

Unfortunately, family fueds often start from these small instances but bring out the worst in people. I hope you get to keep this treasure.

My family has recently broken up due to a similar issue and unfortunately, I no longer have any contact with my two great aunts (who were like grandmothers to me my whole life).

It's very unfortunate but it's also amazing the evil that people show when there's money or possessions involved.

Good luck

Michele...FM