Another In Law question - (sorry) (and its long)

christy Posted: Jun 11, 2003 05:56 PM

Re: Another In Law question - (sorry) (and its long)

my MIL thinks it is her business to know exactly who gave me what, and how much!! ! ETC...
She is actually angry at my and DH because we wont tell. It is nobody's business. She keeps trying, as if I owe her this info. We do not owe her anything. I refuse to tell, I dont think that is right.

Edited to say that she does not want this info so she can reciprocate to others. She is not a generous gift giver at all.

michele31 Posted: Jun 11, 2003 06:14 PM

Re: Another In Law question - (sorry) (and its long)

My parents asked what their close friends and their close family gave- so they know what to give at some future weddings. I had no problem telling them. But DH's family never asked and I didn't share.

lilmrs Posted: Jun 11, 2003 06:18 PM

Re: Another In Law question - (sorry) (and its long)

His parents did ask and I am creating a spread sheet for them. They asked so they would be appropriate at other friends weddings. They do not want to short change anyone...which I don't think they could because they are such generous people. After everything they have done for us, I was more than happy to share.